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Originally Posted by Captain.Remy

Both reactions were uncalled for. Both actions were bad taste. She attacked me on God knows what because I've never talked to her before, isn't that even worse ? It is. I do justify myself because it's unfair for you to blame me only, but you don't see she's to blame too. So you also tell her what you just told me because both terms were offensive, they're as bad as each other.

Right, I have to state it one more time because it's being lost on you here: You cannot try to compare a jibe or insult in an argument with a personal attack on someones appearance. There's a huge gulf between the two, particularly when you don't even know each other too well - anything she said should never have provoked such a strong reaction from you.

All this conversation has proven to me is the unbalanced view you have towards any argument that you're involved with, and the level you will reach in order to validate your own actions.