[Captain.Remy]

Originally Posted by setanta

Right, I have to state it one more time because it's being lost on you here: You cannot try to compare a jibe or insult in an argument with a personal attack on someones appearance. There's a huge gulf between the two, particularly when you don't even know each other too well - anything she said should never have provoked such a strong reaction from you.

All this conversation has proven to me is the unbalanced view you have towards any argument that you're involved with, and the level you will reach in order to validate your own actions.

Oh really ? And why is that ? Probably the comment she made was about the way I come across, possibly, I don't even know so it's also judging on appearances because she doesn't know me too. You have unbalanced views because you refuse to see that both comments were as offensive as each other. She shouldn't have insulted me first, I'd have never said that in the first place.

I hope she understood that you cannot insult people without expecting consequences, she doesn't know me, she should have expected something back. Like I said, what I told her wasn't nice either but it's what I thought at the moment. We both apologized, it's over, so why do you keep arguing ? I mean, it's over since last night, time to move on.