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Originally Posted by Captain.Remy

But if you don't ask, she'll go like "But you didn't see I wasn't feeling well, why don't you ever take care of my feelings etc............." You're screwed both ways and you can say bye bye to your night.

Nah try this one.

"Hey I know that you are upset and I am really sorry. I didnt realise it would upset you so much. Would you like to talk about it?"

Chances are then you get the outpouring of why "it" upset her so much.