[Shasown]

Originally Posted by Captain.Remy

The worst thing is, when you say "What's wrong ?" and she says "Nothing", you know you're dead.

PMSL very true, so dont ask, you are expected to know. Just apologise in a very open sincere but non specific way. And for gods sake try to avoid answering the question "what are you apologising for?"

[Captain.Remy]

Originally Posted by Shasown

PMSL very true, so dont ask, you are expected to know. Just apologise in a very open sincere but non specific way. And for gods sake try to avoid answering the question "what are you apologising for?"

But if you don't ask, she'll go like "But you didn't see I wasn't feeling well, why don't you ever take care of my feelings etc............." You're screwed both ways and you can say bye bye to your night.

[setanta]

Originally Posted by Captain.Remy

But if you don't ask, she'll go like "But you didn't see I wasn't feeling well, why don't you ever take care of my feelings etc............." You're screwed both ways and you can say bye bye to your night.

You see women can be so manipulative with their emotions when it involves us, you know? We're idiots, but sure you can see us coming a mile away. Girls have a different way of getting back at us.

[Shasown]

Originally Posted by Captain.Remy

But if you don't ask, she'll go like "But you didn't see I wasn't feeling well, why don't you ever take care of my feelings etc............." You're screwed both ways and you can say bye bye to your night.

Nah try this one.

"Hey I know that you are upset and I am really sorry. I didnt realise it would upset you so much. Would you like to talk about it?"

Chances are then you get the outpouring of why "it" upset her so much.

[setanta]

Originally Posted by Shasown

Nah try this one.

"Hey I know that you are upset and I am really sorry. I didnt realise it would upset you so much. Would you like to talk about it?"

Chances are then you get the outpouring of why "it" upset her so much.

We have egos too though Shawsown lol. I mean, sometimes it's not our fault, you know, as strange as that may be for a woman to accept sometimes!

[Shasown]

Originally Posted by setanta

We have egos too though Shawsown lol. I mean, sometimes it's not our fault, you know, as strange as that may be for a woman to accept sometimes!

Very true, but the real barrier between men and women is communication.

Take this from me very hard lesson, when she says she has a problem and wants to talk it over, listen sympathetically, make the right yes, no and other sympathetic sounds they use with each other. but the one thing she doesnt want to hear is your ideas about how to rectify things.

One top tip get one of those user manuals for her like, men are from mars..... read it and learn how not to annoy them. Makes for a healthier and happier life all round.

[setanta]

Originally Posted by Shasown

Very true, but the real barrier between men and women is communication.

Take this from me very hard lesson, when she says she has a problem and wants to talk it over, listen sympathetically, make the right yes, no and other sympathetic sounds they use with each other. but the one thing she doesnt want to hear is your ideas about how to rectify things.

One top tip get one of those user manuals for her like, men are from mars..... read it and learn how not to annoy them. Makes for a healthier and happier life all round.

No no, I agree with you; I'm just saying that sometimes it can be very difficult.

[Shasown]

Originally Posted by setanta

No no, I agree with you; I'm just saying that sometimes it can be very difficult.

Difficult? Well night impossible. Those suggestions are for damage limitation use only.