[WOMBAI]

Originally Posted by Niamhxo

Well, I can tell you I wasn't so strong or level headed when I got pregnant with my daughter but yeah I did have good support from my family. Tbh, I think having my daughter was the best thing that could've happened cos I was a bit out of control up until then. But I do understand what you're saying and like I said before I'm not completely against abortion as such, I just think that it should be a serious thing to do for people and I realize it is for most people but not for everyone which I do find disgusting.

Yes - I agree that nobody should be using abortion as a form of contraception! I like to think that the type of people doing that are in the minority - and there definitely should be sanctions of some kind for those people!

[WOMBAI]

Originally Posted by cupid stunt

nar thats a load of **** birds can take the pill, WHY SHOULD LADS HAVE TO TAKE RESPONSIBILITY ITS NOT US WHO GET PREGNANT IS IT

Not very enlightened are you? Of course - women get pregnant all by themselves - nothing to do with guys! You talk utter sh*te - you know that!

I am sure you must be about 10 - because anyone older would probably have more sense that to broadcast such ignorance!

[WOMBAI]

Originally Posted by cupid stunt

why should a lad have to pay 4 a babby wot he dont want, and wot might not even be his?

Put something on the end of it then - act like a man, not a silly irresponsible boy!

[WOMBAI]

Originally Posted by cupid stunt

put something on the end of it? wot are you jeremy kyle or sumat
its up 2 gals to take the pill, its not lads fault that bareback feels 10 times better is it?

Think you must be somewhat lacking in the IQ department! Take your caveman views somewhere else!

[WOMBAI]

Originally Posted by cupid stunt

im 20 luv, just because i dont fall for feminist bull**** dont mean im talking sh*te

Nothing to do with feminist bull - just common sense - something you clearly lack!

[WOMBAI]

Originally Posted by cupid stunt

im 20 luv, just because i dont fall for feminist bull**** dont mean im talking sh*te

I wouldn't spout your true age, if indeed it is true, if I were you with ignorant, childish views like that! You just make yourself look all the more ridiculous!

[Ella]

Originally Posted by teamandre

no if you read before i said except for speical circumstances e.g rape other things and yes its there body but it doesnt mean i have to agree with it does it thats my opion

But you said it's 'wrong', Who are you to decide what's right and wrong for a woman to do what she feels is best for her and her body?

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by cupid stunt

why should a lad have to pay 4 a babby wot he dont want, and wot might not even be his?

there's such a thing as a DNA test you know

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by cupid stunt

nah nah your chattin **** women can take the pill, speakin from a lads point of view sex feels 10 times better without a jonny so why cant birds just all go on the pill?

absolutely fine as long as you're aware that by doing that you're taking a chance and may end up paying child support, that's a chance you take by not wearing one

[Ella]

Cupid Stunt, Maybe you should stop smoking so much weed and then you may not sound so ridiculous in what you say!

Some women can't go on the pill ect ect and you saying that all women should go on the pill is just very very silly! And FYI Women do not like being called 'Birds'..Jeeez

[Saralouleelaa]

Originally Posted by pinkmichk

dont agree with the ad same way i didnt agree with the morning after pill advert but i'm pro life anyway so dont agree with abortion anyway

i completely agree with you, if people didnt want children they should be either protecting themselves properly or not having sex at all

[Tom4784]

Originally Posted by Saralouleelaa

i completely agree with you, if people didnt want children they should be either protecting themselves properly or not having sex at all

But that's the narrow and simplistic view and life isn't that black and white. What if the mother suffers from health issues that could endanger her during pregnancy or what if they can't financially cope with a pregnancy? I'm against the notion of abortion used a contraceptive but if someone wants to have an abortion then well that's their choice.

It's never as simple as what you made it out to be in your post and it's quite patronising.

[WOMBAI]

Originally Posted by cupid stunt

nah nah your chattin **** women can take the pill, speakin from a lads point of view sex feels 10 times better without a jonny so why cant birds just all go on the pill?

Some people should legally be forced to have the chop!

[Saralouleelaa]

yeah i understand that, which i did forget to mention in all honesty, My sister had to have one due to both the fact she would have died carrying another child and that fact her and her partner hadnt got enough money for another child what im saying is the people who use it as another form of contraception like my friend who had an an abortion, which i kinda understood because of her situation she would have been homeless and etc, but its the stupidest excuse she used.. 'Well i thought i was infertile because i hadnt got pregnant for 5 months' (people can try for years without be infertile and not conceive straight away.. But then after the abortion maybe 2-3 weeks later she said i think im pregnant again.. Thats the thing im on about i dont think it should be used as a contraception, that is wrong.

[Niamh.]

I saw the ad yesterday, It seemed more like an ad for advice for un-planned pregnancies rather than an for abortion really, I mean haven't those types of ads always been around?

[WOMBAI]

Originally Posted by Saralouleelaa

yeah i understand that, which i did forget to mention in all honesty, My sister had to have one due to both the fact she would have died carrying another child and that fact her and her partner hadnt got enough money for another child what im saying is the people who use it as another form of contraception like my friend who had an an abortion, which i kinda understood because of her situation she would have been homeless and etc, but its the stupidest excuse she used.. 'Well i thought i was infertile because i hadnt got pregnant for 5 months' (people can try for years without be infertile and not conceive straight away.. But then after the abortion maybe 2-3 weeks later she said i think im pregnant again.. Thats the thing im on about i dont think it should be used as a contraception, that is wrong.

I was referring to the irresponsible attitude of that particular male member - who believes that he as a man has no responsibiltiy to use contraception and protect himself from unwanted fatherhood - and thinks that it is all down to the woman!

[Sunny_01]

I think the advert is ok, I am the mother of a teenager girl and I would want my daughter to be fully informed if she ever needed to make that type of decision. I am very much pro choice and to have a choice you have to be informed about your options.

I dont agree with termination as a form of contraception but do think it has a place in this world. I would also say that something from the cotraception bods would be a good advert to show that there are lots of alternatives to pregnancy and that with the right information abortion rates would reduce.

[Saralouleelaa]

Originally Posted by WOMBAI

I was referring to the irresponsible attitude of that particular male member - who believes that he as a man has no responsibiltiy to use contraception and protect himself from unwanted fatherhood - and thinks that it is all down to the woman!

no i understand that i agrre with what you said their i was replying to the post above

[Tom4784]

Originally Posted by Saralouleelaa

yeah i understand that, which i did forget to mention in all honesty, My sister had to have one due to both the fact she would have died carrying another child and that fact her and her partner hadnt got enough money for another child what im saying is the people who use it as another form of contraception like my friend who had an an abortion, which i kinda understood because of her situation she would have been homeless and etc, but its the stupidest excuse she used.. 'Well i thought i was infertile because i hadnt got pregnant for 5 months' (people can try for years without be infertile and not conceive straight away.. But then after the abortion maybe 2-3 weeks later she said i think im pregnant again.. Thats the thing im on about i dont think it should be used as a contraception, that is wrong.

fair enough, I agree abortion should never be used willy nilly but I won't judge somebody who does have an abortion sicne it's likely to be a difficult decision to most people.

[Saralouleelaa]

yeah i know it really is.. as much as my sister needed to do it she didnt want to, but she had to so she did. But my friend didnt even bat and eyelid, the worst thing she said was after she found out what options she had (she was six weeks) 'im gonna wait till im 7 weeks so i can have the vacum one so it doesnt hurt me' Now thats what upset me.

[Beastie]

Originally Posted by Saralouleelaa

yeah i know it really is.. as much as my sister needed to do it she didnt want to, but she had to so she did. But my friend didnt even bat and eyelid, the worst thing she said was after she found out what options she had (she was six weeks) 'im gonna wait till im 7 weeks so i can have the vacum one so it doesnt hurt me' Now thats what upset me.

What do if you have an abortion before that?

[Shasown]

Originally Posted by thebeast

What do if you have an abortion before that?

Two stage tablet, one kills the foetus,and causes the lining of the womb to strip away the second expels it like a miscarriage opening the neck of the womb and causing uterine contractions.

[Beastie]

Originally Posted by Shasown

Two stage tablet, one kills the foetus,and causes the lining of the womb to strip away the second expels it like a miscarriage opening the neck of the womb and causing uterine contractions.

Oh.. thanks :S

[Saralouleelaa]

any abortion is not a very nice thing to go though, but the way she said it seemed selfish to me.

[Shasown]

Originally Posted by Saralouleelaa

any abortion is not a very nice thing to go though, but the way she said it seemed selfish to me.

In some peoples eyes most abortions are selfish.

Maybe she said it like that to appear she wasnt too bothered about having an abortion, mind you, you know her, is she a selfish uncaring unfeeling bitch?