[CaudleHalbard]

would he have 'stood up' to Steve or some big, equally masculine male the way he does to the women - I think not!

Of course not - everyone tiptoes around Steve because he is a "wounded war hero". In reality Steve is actually one of the most physically vulnerable people in the house.

The likes of Shabby want to play at being a man, but can't hack it when they are spoken to as if they are a man!