[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by lime

But Niamh ,a man shouting at any sized woman can be intimidating ,so can a woman shouting at any sized man.But when Shabby is shouting she is usually acting aggressively ie throwing tables and screaming like a banshee.

I don't like Nathan at all.....but Shabby was certainly no victim.

I do see your point but to me Shabby is more like a child having a tantrum and directs her anger at inanimate objects like tables or cushions and doesn't really come across as threatening imo. Where as Nathan, as Wombai said, was squaring up to Shabby and directing his anger fully on her. I don't like to sound sexist but it is a biological fact that in general men are alot stronger than women and I for one would feel incredibly uncomfortable and intimidated if a man did this to me.

But I do also take on board your point.