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Originally Posted by serensilver

On last nights live feed JJ was right, Ben is the most selfish housemate, he doesnt do anything for other people he is moaning for not having enough "alone" time ffs this is big brother its a community house you cant expect to be alone and have lights out and silence from 11:30 in the night!

Its all "poor Ben poor Ben" If Ben had his way they'd all be in bed by 11:30 and we would have nothing to watch apart from them all snoozing!

I just wish they would stop molly codling him and tell him to get involved with tasks and stop being so damn selfish!

There are plenty of places housemates can play and be raucous so why shouldnt people respect others if they want to sleep in a bedroom.

Ben repects that others are not like him and that they may not be able to contain there excitement but he just asks if people would respect that when people are sleeping that people allow them to do so.

Just because John James is sporty and enthusiastic to show himself in a good light with his competitive team spirit it doesnt mean everyone has to. Ben has as much right not to be enthusiastic as JJ has to be so.

However, if John James is the selfless person that he claims to be he would able to accept Ben's choices instead of trying to highlight what he deems as a flaw and get people in the house against Ben. This is obvious gameplay by John James as he attacks at least one housemate each week after evictions or on the Sunday before Monday's nominations. There is nothing wrong with gameplay but he is overly aggressive in the way he does it and do not be mistaken into thinking that what he would like you to believe is a selfless act will be used by himself to show himself in a good light and is therefore not selfless but a calculated gamble with a wholly selfish intent.