[joeysteele]

serensilver,never mind what I say but really, do yourself some real good and read and absorb the posts left by jedwardfever and kazanne particularly,do what JJ cannot and read them,absorb them and learn from them.
Remove from your eyes the rose coloured glasses you look at the vile tempered,woman hating John James with and sort out your selective memory too.
BEN never insults, he states his case in a reasoned and articulate way,how he hasn't up to now really blown his top with JJ shows his strength of character and understanding in the midst of totally unfair and paranoiac barracking from the likes of John James.
The real reason though that Ben doesn't need to lose his temper and resort to insults etc,is because he has right on his side, his analysis and debate are usually totally correct.
John James is a troublemaker and a rather nasty and unsavoury one at times too.