[calyman]

Ben: duplicitous, passive aggressive, bitchy (verging on nasty), self seeking, weak, homophobic, etc.

Mario: Jealous, obsessive, self regarding, sex orientated, naturist (in yer face sort), predatory, etc.

Clearly, both have had many negative points made about them. There's not going to be much changing of opinion towards either of them. However, for the sake of balance, I challenge you to say positive things about either of them, not just "seemingly" positive but genuine positve statements about Ben or Mario, especially of the person you have been criticising.