[joeysteele]

Originally Posted by Pyramid*

It's one of those situs that you 'have' to be in I suppose Joey - we all think and say we would 'react' in a certain way when we've not 'been there'......... but when it happens - we realise sometimes that we don't quite 'react' the way we KNOW we should.

It all very dependant on personal circumstances as well - in each of the people involved at the time of meeting, how the relationship grew - and then changed..... by which time - much has happened.

True, point noted, but I hate being smothered, the moment it started to happen I would pull away fast.

Once my times of solitude were being limited or eroded then that would likely,(I say likely admitting that one day someone may have a really massive effect on me),turn me against them and I'd need to walk away from it all.

Time will tell I guess but for me long term commitment will be a very hard river to cross anyway.