[Ammi]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

I suppose it's a compliment, still makes you feel old though!

It's not about age though because you can be a mother at 16 (or younger).

Originally Posted by InOne

If you tell a woman who has had a few kids and has a crap relationship that she is still still very attractive, what harm can it do

It's more about the term milf. I totally agree to compliment anyone only makes them feel good but I'm not sure I take it as a compliment, it's very much a male expression, which I personally don't like. If I had a daughter for instance and her mates said I was attractive, wear nice clothes, had a nice figure...etc I would be complimented and feel good but bearing in mind what milf means, I know its just an expression but I think it's very disrespectful.

[Stu]

Originally Posted by rhino

It's not about age though because you can be a mother at 16 (or younger).



It's more about the term milf. I totally agree to compliment anyone only makes them feel good but I'm not sure I take it as a compliment, it's very much a male expression, which I personally don't like. If I had a daughter for instance and her mates said I was attractive, wear nice clothes, had a nice figure...etc I would be complimented and feel good but bearing in mind what milf means, I know its just an expression but I think it's very disrespectful.

Why though? At the end of the day it just means they think you're attractive. Their just exspressing it in a very boorish, masculine way.

It's a very natural expression of thought I think. Everyone who meets anyone internally thinks anyway 'how attractive do I find this person?'. It's what we are biologically programmed to do.

What is sleazy? That someone has sexual thoughts about a MILF? That's not sleazy it's perfectly rational behaviour that's been made sleazy by culture for the sake of sanctifying some system of morals or poking fun at a 'sleazy' person.

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by Stu

Why though? At the end of the day it just means they think you're attractive. Their just exspressing it in a very boorish, masculine way.

It's a very natural expression of thought I think. Everyone who meets anyone internally thinks anyway 'how attractive do I find this person?'. It's what we are biologically programmed to do.

What is sleazy? That someone has sexual thoughts about a MILF? That's not sleazy it's perfectly rational behaviour that's been made sleazy by culture for the sake of sanctifying some system of morals or poking fun at a 'sleazy' person.

Yes I totally agree with this. It is natural if you find someone attractive to comment on it, but I personally think that can be done in a more compimentary way by just saying they are attractive. Milf is like saying, yeah I would't mind having a go, the same as if a bloke made a sexual remark about another bloke's gf. It's disrepectful.