[jet]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

OK first off...I wouldnt do that.

If I knew that burping in his ear would piss him off...and someone who my 'new' partner didnt get on with was egging me on to do it just to piss him off, and I knew he was sensitive about manners then no way would I do it.

And if I did I would expect him to probably go home, or at least have an argument about it. As it happens, Aaron doesnt really do arguments, so obviously he would have just removed himself from the situation. Unfortunately in the BB house he cant exactly do that can he?

She didn't know him that well, and couldn't possibly have predicted Aaron would behave the way he did about it, because it was a way over the top reaction. That is my point. It is Aaron's WAY of dealing with situations that is just not mature or rational that gets him into trouble. He could have explained to her that he REALLY REALLY doesn't like that, asked her not to do it again, and left it at that. Instead he makes a whole drama out of it.

[Vicky.]

Originally Posted by jet

She didn't know him that well, and couldn't possibly have predicted Aaron would behave the way he did about it, because it was a way over the top reaction. That is my point. It is Aaron's WAY of dealing with situations that is just not mature or rational that gets him into trouble. He could have explained to her that he REALLY REALLY doesn't like that, asked her not to do it again, and left it at that. Instead he makes a whole drama out of it.

She did know how much it annoyed him though, as when they were sitting burping round the table, he was clearly disgusted...she knew that it would cause a reaction, plus she only did it because jay told her to, which makes it worse :/

Anyway, his way of dealing with things does come across as very immature, but if his normal coping mechanism outside of the house is to walk away from things that annoy him until he calms down...well...would it seem as bad if that happened on the outside?

[jet]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

She did know how much it annoyed him though, as when they were sitting burping round the table, he was clearly disgusted...she knew that it would cause a reaction, plus she only did it because jay told her to, which makes it worse :/

Anyway, his way of dealing with things does come across as very immature, but if his normal coping mechanism outside of the house is to walk away from things that annoy him until he calms down...well...would it seem as bad if that happened on the outside?

Not as much. Outside, he wouldn't have been near her, say until the next day. But he was in the house, and she was there, so he should have resolved the situation much sooner. As it was, it made him look bad - as his behaviour often does.

[Vicky.]

Originally Posted by jet

Not as much. Outside, he wouldn't have been near her, say until the next day. But he was in the house, and she was there, so he should have resolved the situation much sooner. As it was, it made him look bad - as his behaviour often does.

Oh I agree with this. I just find it hard to understand how people think this is some of the main 'proof' of how badly he treats faye.