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Vicky. · 25-10-2011, 02:54 PM

I see as usual noone has a convincing argument about how Aaron is so horrible to Faye.

Interesting that the main thing seems to be when he got pissed off over her burping in his face. I wonder how many of the people slating him for that would be happy with their partner of a few weeks purposely burping in their face...knowing they didnt like it... because someone they disliked told them to

jet · 25-10-2011, 04:43 PM

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Originally Posted by Vicky.

I see as usual noone has a convincing argument about how Aaron is so horrible to Faye.

Interesting that the main thing seems to be when he got pissed off over her burping in his face. I wonder how many of the people slating him for that would be happy with their partner of a few weeks purposely burping in their face...knowing they didnt like it... because someone they disliked told them to

Personally, I'm not saying Aaron is HORRIBLE to her - he just doesn't treat her right sometimes and is manipulative and odd.
If you burped in YOUR partners ear when you'd had a few, would you be happy if he acted as if he was disgusted, talked about ending the relationship and wouldn't speak to you for a whole day?

alex_front2 · 25-10-2011, 04:46 PM

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Personally, I'm not saying Aaron is HORRIBLE to her - he just doesn't treat her right sometimes and is manipulative and odd.
If you burped in YOUR partners ear when you'd had a few, would you be happy if he acted as if he was disgusted, talked about ending the relationship and wouldn't speak to you for a whole day?

But that's the whole point, everyone is different and has different things that p*ss them off. For example Jay loves Louise's farts. I'd hate it. Aaron is a BB maverick

jet · 25-10-2011, 04:46 PM

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Originally Posted by Vicky.

I see as usual noone has a convincing argument about how Aaron is so horrible to Faye.

Interesting that the main thing seems to be when he got pissed off over her burping in his face. I wonder how many of the people slating him for that would be happy with their partner of a few weeks purposely burping in their face...knowing they didnt like it... because someone they disliked told them to

I'm seeing some pretty convincing points, and I also saw them with my own eyes on BB. Personally, I'm not saying Aaron is HORRIBLE to her - he just doesn't treat her right sometimes and is manipulative and odd.
If you burped in YOUR partners ear when you'd had a few, would you be happy if he acted as if he was disgusted, talked about ending the relationship and wouldn't speak to you for a whole day?

Vicky. · 25-10-2011, 04:50 PM

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I'm seeing some pretty convincing points, and I also saw them with my own eyes on BB. Personally, I'm not saying Aaron is HORRIBLE to her - he just doesn't treat her right sometimes and is manipulative and odd.
If you burped in YOUR partners ear when you'd had a few, would you be happy if he acted as if he was disgusted, talked about ending the relationship and wouldn't speak to you for a whole day?

OK first off...I wouldnt do that.

If I knew that burping in his ear would piss him off...and someone who my 'new' partner didnt get on with was egging me on to do it just to piss him off, and I knew he was sensitive about manners then no way would I do it.

And if I did I would expect him to probably go home, or at least have an argument about it. As it happens, Aaron doesnt really do arguments, so obviously he would have just removed himself from the situation. Unfortunately in the BB house he cant exactly do that can he?

jet · 25-10-2011, 05:13 PM

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OK first off...I wouldnt do that.

If I knew that burping in his ear would piss him off...and someone who my 'new' partner didnt get on with was egging me on to do it just to piss him off, and I knew he was sensitive about manners then no way would I do it.

And if I did I would expect him to probably go home, or at least have an argument about it. As it happens, Aaron doesnt really do arguments, so obviously he would have just removed himself from the situation. Unfortunately in the BB house he cant exactly do that can he?

She didn't know him that well, and couldn't possibly have predicted Aaron would behave the way he did about it, because it was a way over the top reaction. That is my point. It is Aaron's WAY of dealing with situations that is just not mature or rational that gets him into trouble. He could have explained to her that he REALLY REALLY doesn't like that, asked her not to do it again, and left it at that. Instead he makes a whole drama out of it.

Vicky. · 25-10-2011, 05:17 PM

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She didn't know him that well, and couldn't possibly have predicted Aaron would behave the way he did about it, because it was a way over the top reaction. That is my point. It is Aaron's WAY of dealing with situations that is just not mature or rational that gets him into trouble. He could have explained to her that he REALLY REALLY doesn't like that, asked her not to do it again, and left it at that. Instead he makes a whole drama out of it.

She did know how much it annoyed him though, as when they were sitting burping round the table, he was clearly disgusted...she knew that it would cause a reaction, plus she only did it because jay told her to, which makes it worse :/

Anyway, his way of dealing with things does come across as very immature, but if his normal coping mechanism outside of the house is to walk away from things that annoy him until he calms down...well...would it seem as bad if that happened on the outside?

jet · 25-10-2011, 05:32 PM

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She did know how much it annoyed him though, as when they were sitting burping round the table, he was clearly disgusted...she knew that it would cause a reaction, plus she only did it because jay told her to, which makes it worse :/

Anyway, his way of dealing with things does come across as very immature, but if his normal coping mechanism outside of the house is to walk away from things that annoy him until he calms down...well...would it seem as bad if that happened on the outside?

Not as much. Outside, he wouldn't have been near her, say until the next day. But he was in the house, and she was there, so he should have resolved the situation much sooner. As it was, it made him look bad - as his behaviour often does.

Vicky. · 25-10-2011, 05:45 PM

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Not as much. Outside, he wouldn't have been near her, say until the next day. But he was in the house, and she was there, so he should have resolved the situation much sooner. As it was, it made him look bad - as his behaviour often does.

Oh I agree with this. I just find it hard to understand how people think this is some of the main 'proof' of how badly he treats faye.

jet · 25-10-2011, 04:52 PM

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Originally Posted by Vicky.

I see as usual noone has a convincing argument about how Aaron is so horrible to Faye.

Interesting that the main thing seems to be when he got pissed off over her burping in his face. I wonder how many of the people slating him for that would be happy with their partner of a few weeks purposely burping in their face...knowing they didnt like it... because someone they disliked told them to

I'm seeing some pretty convincing points, and I also saw them with my own eyes on BB.

Personally, I'm not saying Aaron is HORRIBLE to her - he just doesn't treat her right sometimes and is manipulative and odd.
The burping event - If you burped in YOUR partners ear when you'd had a few, would you be happy if he acted as if he was disgusted, talked about ending the relationship and wouldn't speak to you for a whole day? It seems most Aaron fans think this is a good way to deal with such a situation and that just doesn't seem real to me.

flamingGalah! · 25-10-2011, 04:56 PM

My other half sometimes burps in my face & I literally smack him in the mouth. He knows I find it disgusting, which it is, so I can understand Aaron being repulsed by it too...

Vicky. · 25-10-2011, 04:58 PM

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My other half sometimes burps in my face & I literally smack him in the mouth. He knows I find it disgusting, which it is, so I can understand Aaron being repulsed by it too...

You have an interesting relationship I assume?

flamingGalah! · 25-10-2011, 05:00 PM

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You have an interesting relationship I assume?

Oh yes, but the make up sex is great

fruit_cake · 25-10-2011, 05:01 PM

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Oh yes, but the make up sex is great

TMI

Vicky. · 25-10-2011, 05:10 PM

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Oh yes, but the make up sex is great

Heh. Been there.

Well, kinda currently there. Mine and my lads relationship is 'questionable' by many peoples standards, but it works for us

flamingGalah! · 25-10-2011, 05:13 PM

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Heh. Been there.

Well, kinda currently there. Mine and my lads relationship is 'questionable' by many peoples standards, but it works for us

Yep us too

We can be having a blazing row & 5 minutes later be in bed... But that's slightly off topic

chuff me dizzy · 25-10-2011, 05:18 PM

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My other half sometimes burps in my face & I literally smack him in the mouth. He knows I find it disgusting, which it is, so I can understand Aaron being repulsed by it too...

If someone did it to me they would be picking their molars of their feaces (See I never swore?)