[Parmy]

good post.

However. We need to look at fayes reasons for nominating him.

[Cherry Christmas]

Originally Posted by parmnion

good post.

However. We need to look at fayes reasons for nominating him.

which were?

[Parmy]

Originally Posted by CherieB

which were?

I'm about to go back and watch them all on my recorded programmes.I'm assuming it's because she though he was sending mixed signals and his huffyness is bound to come in to play somewhere.

[rogerb]

Originally Posted by CherieB

which were?

she is a spoilt and very needy brat.

[LivT]

Originally Posted by parmnion

good post.

However. We need to look at fayes reasons for nominating him.

Yes. of course. But what exactly were they? More to the point (and lets not lose sight here that they had already established an emotional attachment towards one another) Was it that bad that she felt justified to use noms as a means of bitter revenge? ok, had she of decided that Aaron was not for her after all, perhaps a different matter....but to me that also reeked of a woman scorned

[Ammi]

What is quite telling is the conversation she's just with him, talking about her mum and asking what he's going to do to impress her...has her mum not got to impress Aaron to...she's already judged him without meeting him....if it was the other way round and say Jay's mum had done this to Louise and Jay asked Louise how she was going to impress his mum, everyone would be screaming.......'mummy's boy!'.....there has been no empathy for how Aaron is feeling, that I can see from Faye

[LivT]

Originally Posted by Ammi

What is quite telling is the conversation she's just with him, talking about her mum and asking what he's going to do to impress her...has her mum not got to impress Aaron to...she's already judged him without meeting him....if it was the other way round and say Jay's mum had done this to Louise and Jay asked Louise how she was going to impress his mum, everyone would be screaming.......'mummy's boy!'.....there has been no empathy for how Aaron is feeling, that I can see from Faye

Absolutely, Ammi - and that is my bone of contention here.

[Rustic bauble]

That was a great post LivT...and you are spot on with what you have said and I totally agree with you. Faye causes drama when things are not going her way...where Aaron takes a quieter stance by distancing himself from the situation to think things through. People have translated this as sulking..and as you say the consequence of this is that people that are so fickle have seen Aaron as the one who is messing with Fayes feelings when in fact as you have said it is more evident the other way around.

[LivT]

Originally Posted by rusticgal

That was a great post LivT...and you are spot on with what you have said and I totally agree with you. Faye causes drama when things are not going her way...where Aaron takes a quieter stance by distancing himself from the situation to think things through. People have translated this as sulking..and as you say the consequence of this is that people that are so fickle have seen Aaron as the one who is messing with Fayes feelings when in fact as you have said it is more evident the other way around.

Thank you kindly, rusticgal. That is exactly what I was trying to highlight and I am pleased others can see the bigger picture