[Vicky.]

Originally Posted by SoBig

Completely and utter false. Its quite easy to spot gay men.

Its not

Its easy to spot overly camp men, I agree. (but camp doesnt always mean gay, usually it does though)

But a lot of gay men...you wouldnt know it until they start necking on with a bloke in front of you. They probably 'act' a lot straighter than most straight people do.

Same as not all lesbians are butch...and you cant tell if a girl is gay or not just by their mannerisms...

I think its just piss ignorant to say there are any defining characteristics of a gay person tbh. Not everyone plays to stereotypes