[Ammi]

Originally Posted by Lana Del Reyndeer

my unhappiness and depression

..I think you could help with that yourself though Charlie..I remember when you seemed to enjoy this forum and a lot of people enjoyed having you around as well...but you often speak to people on here with an unfounded contempt...maybe not everyone here has as many materialistic/designer things as you do..but as you know, those things don't bring any lasting happiness....neither does being obsessive about food/weight..as no extreme is healthy..not even a 'healthy' one...the healthiest lifestyle is balanced..and from what I've seen there are a lot of people on here who have a balanced lifestyle...it also makes you happier to have balance as well..to focus too much on one thing is never a good thing in relation to anything...

..if you allowed yourself to enjoy this forum, then you would find that you had friends and it wouldn't solve anything, but it would help..friends are always a comfort through bad times...and no one ever has enough friends Charlie...even with lots of real life friends..online ones are an added bonus...'meeting' people you would never come across in real life...we're not 'sad losers'..we're very clever people to realise that....

..I don't think you would keep posting if you thought we were that bad though...so while you're here, why not try to enjoy the people on here as well....

..it's ok to feel unhappy, a lot of people are unhappy with certain things that are beyond their control..but it isn't ok to take that unhappiness out on other people..people's lives are complicated enough, without being made to feel their less than or treated with contempt...