Why is it, that the followers of Yeshua are often the least Yeshua-like?

I'm not the one who went on a caps lock tirade. I think anyone reading our exchange in this thread wouldn't pick me out as the one who has been abusive.

I'll make the first move. I'll post a question on your wall and we can go from there. 1 question each, and we take it in turns to ask one? And if the other person isn't happy, then we get the chance to cross examine each other till we get the answer that satisfies the questioner?

I think that's fair.