[thesheriff443]

Originally Posted by Jesus.H.Christ

Then it is a joint decision. If it was an accident then the final decision should always rest with the mother.

but that's just it!, its the mother's choice not your's,you can be deeply in love plan for a baby you are then pregnant, and for whatever reason your partner decide's to end the the pregnancy you have no right's to stop her.

[AnnieK]

Originally Posted by thesheriff443

but that's just it!, its the mother's choice not your's,you can be deeply in love plan for a baby you are then pregnant, and for whatever reason your partner decide's to end the the pregnancy you have no right's to stop her.

It's impossible to enforce though as it is the woman's body but I agree it must be very difficult and completely unfair for some men when the decision is taken from them and it is something they want...

[sassysocks]

Originally Posted by thesheriff443

but that's just it!, its the mother's choice not your's,you can be deeply in love plan for a baby you are then pregnant, and for whatever reason your partner decide's to end the the pregnancy you have no right's to stop her.

In that unfortunate situation, of course the mother has the final say, it is her body, her choice. Why would you think that your choice should trump hers when it is her body?

Apart from the obvious violation of her rights over her own body - what if she were forced to continue with the pregnancy, there were complictions and she died. That risk and that choice has to be hers alone.