[Candy Annie Cane]

Originally Posted by the truth

me too, have a virtual hug munchkins
ps it would be an interesting questionaire to ask a cross section of male and females and see if there is a gender disparity here....unless women generally avoid them just in case it leads to sex they may not be in the mood for?

I avoid them with males and females though so its not a case of avoiding for avoidance of possible sex...I think it may be more how you were brought up....were your parents free with hugs truth? My parents weren't particularly so I don't see it is a comfort thing... Maybe thats why I am not a hugger, it wasn't usual for me???

[the truth]

Originally Posted by anniek76

I avoid them with males and females though so its not a case of avoiding for avoidance of possible sex...I think it may be more how you were brought up....were your parents free with hugs truth? My parents weren't particularly so I don't see it is a comfort thing... Maybe thats why I am not a hugger, it wasn't usual for me???

no my parents werent huggy when i was growing up, warm loving parents just not huggy? maybe i feel i need to catch up on body warmth?

[Suze]

I feel awful admitting this, but I am just not a huggy person unless an occasion demands it and some just need a hug. I do tend to hug animals though, cats, dogs, bunnies, etc.

[the truth]

Originally Posted by Suze

I feel awful admitting this, but I am just not a huggy person unless an occasion demands it and some just need a hug. I do tend to hug animals though, cats, dogs, bunnies, etc.

thanks for your honesty. do u have any reason why u think this is?