[swinearefine]

I completely agree with gender-neutral parenting, and I have arguments with my family on the regular about how my nieces are being raised and what sexist bastards they and everyone except for me is in general. At the same time I think it's pretty douchey to make it a point to not say the sex of your child... doing that kind of highlights gender... just ignore gender stereotypes and raise the kid to be open-minded.