[thesheriff443]

Originally Posted by Ammi

..the strange thing Sheriff is that I don't think we're that far apart in our opinions in that the reasons why people choose to have affairs are very complicated and not black and white at all...very few things in life are black and white and I do have sympathy/compassion for many of those reasons as well...my work involves being involved with many families and many situations and some things are just very sad and unfortunate and they have far reaching effects on the whole family...

..but the actual choice to have the affair really is black and white..you do or you don't....

yes we are on the same page
but I find women that have affairs have it to feel loved and wanted something they are not getting in their own relationship!
men have affairs for sex something they are not getting in their own relationships.
this is of course not going to be the same for everyone and some people don't know what they have got or have until its gone