[Kizzy]

Originally Posted by lostalex

charlie was not making a judgement on her own body, she was fishing for compliments and reassurance. Do you honestly thi8nk that Charlie thought that she is fat?

If she has such a distorted view of her body then she should be in the Priory, not Big Brother.

Charlie does have a distorted view of her body, she had an eating disorder.
Wolfy making her feel guilty probably won't help, she should keep her inane comments to herself.

[Kizzy]

Originally Posted by lostalex

Well i agree she was too aggressive about it, but i think she made her point clear. when she is struggling with so many body issues, and insecurities because of her weight, it doesn't help having a beautiful girl like charlie calling her self fat. I don't know why people on this forum don't have more sympathy for that.

I think MANY people on this forum should be able to sympathize with that.

I have a problem with anyone who tries to tell others what to think or what to say to be fair, if wolfy wasn't offended by that it would be something else.

[Indy]

Originally Posted by Kizzy

Charlie does have a distorted view of her body, she had an eating disorder.
Wolfy making her feel guilty probably won't help, she should keep her inane comments to herself.

It didn't help that Gina reinforced Wolfy, saying that she (Gina) had an eating disorder and refused to discuss it because it was embarrassing. Now even if Charlie's doctor and therapist came in the house, sat Wolfy down and told her she was directly having a negative impact on Charlie's recovery, Wolfy would just ignore them because someone else already validated her (flawed) opinion.

[anne666]

Originally Posted by lostalex

Well i agree she was too aggressive about it, but i think she made her point clear. when she is struggling with so many body issues, and insecurities because of her weight, it doesn't help having a beautiful girl like charlie calling her self fat. I don't know why people on this forum don't have more sympathy for that.

I think MANY people on this forum should be able to sympathize with that.

Sorry but Wolfy has said more than ONCE she has no issue about her weight, that is one of the points of my disagreement with her behaviour. So she is a liar?

[Indy]

Originally Posted by anne666

Sorry but Wolfy has said more than ONCE she has no issue about her weight, that is one of the points of my disagreement with her behaviour. So she is a liar?

Isn't that a given? She lies about being a shaman, she lies about knowing what things cost, and she lies about things other people have said or done. This is simply one more lie to shore up her little fantasy world where Ainsley is always right and anyone who disagrees it out to get her.

[Kate!]

As others have pointed out, Wolfy seizes every opportunity to present herself as a victim and milk whatever sympathy she can, I think she went in there with that as her game plan. She's ranted enough in the diary room about winning it for the fat girls. She's very crafty and manipulative.

If Charlie hadn't made that comment, Wolfy would just have found something else to use to try and portray herself as badly treated.

It's ridiculous that in one breath she is insistent she's happy and has no issues and the next minute she's waffling on about Charlie's insensitivity and how such comments make her feel. Contradicts herself left right and centre.

[anne666]

Originally Posted by Indy

Isn't that a given? She lies about being a shaman, she lies about knowing what things cost, and she lies about things other people have said or done. This is simply one more lie to shore up her little fantasy world where Ainsley is always right and anyone who disagrees it out to get her.

Yes Indy it is a given I was being facetious.She asks for all she gets and she is a ghastly role model

[anne666]

Originally Posted by *Kate*

As others have pointed out, Wolfy seizes every opportunity to present herself as a victim and milk whatever sympathy she can, I think she went in there with that as her game plan. She's ranted enough in the diary room about winning it for the fat girls. She's very crafty and manipulative.

If Charlie hadn't made that comment, Wolfy would just have found something else to use to try and portray herself as badly treated.

It's ridiculous that in one breath she is insistent she's happy and has no issues and the next minute she's waffling on about Charlie's insensitivity and how such comments make her feel. Contradicts herself left right and centre.

Yes I agree, the woman is a bloody nightmare. Charlie had exactly the right attitude in letting her rant AT her and not wasting her breath. She made a complete show of herself.

[Ellen]

Wolfy"s problem was Charlie using the word fat, using the word fat around people who are fat can imply that been fat is disgusting so i can understand Wolfy not liking it but i dont think she should have acted the way she did, it was OTT.

[sampvt]

I cant believe this topic is getting so much air time. Wolfy is milking everything so the fat comment was latched onto as just one more idea for her to get airtime. She contradicts her own opinions so often that she cant be believed to be anything more than a game player and anyone who sees it different needs a serious reality check.

[anne666]

Originally Posted by Ellen

Wolfy"s problem was Charlie using the word fat, using the word fat around people who are fat can imply that been fat is disgusting so i can understand Wolfy not liking it but i dont think she should have acted the way she did, it was OTT.

Oh I now give up

[Ellen]

Originally Posted by anne666

Oh I now give up

Bye then

[Pink Pegasus]

I also think she doesn't like Charlie and was just waiting for an excuse to attack her and to try and turn some of her fans against Charlie.
I think she said in the diary room that both Charlie and Hazel had "dropped the f bomb" around her several times, but yet she never said a thing to Hazel about it at all.

[Kizzy]

She wouldn't dare say anything to hazel, that's my point she is working so hard to be ingratiated with her.

[Pink Pegasus]

Originally Posted by Kizzy

She wouldn't dare say anything to hazel, that's my point she is working so hard to be ingratiated with her.

I agree with this.

[Wish we had a "thanks" or "like" or "agree" button to click! ]

[sampvt]

Originally Posted by xPinkpegasusx

I agree with this.

[Wish we had a "thanks" or "like" or "agree" button to click! ]

try these they work for some.

[Pink Pegasus]

Originally Posted by sampvt

try these they work for some.

Think I have used one of them before (the worship one) but anyways...

for your reply.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

Also its absolutely ****ing ridiculous to say that someone who has previously had an eating disorder doesnt know what its like to feel fat.

Yeah, if anything Wolfy banging on about how awful Charlie is for mentioning the word Fat after she'd heard that she suffered from an eating disorder is far more insensitive.

[Videostar]

Shes doing a Josie (and not in the way Wolfy would like) shes playing the weight card every chance she gets.

[modena]

Originally Posted by lostalex

Then by your logic, it's okay to be rude to anyone you like about how they look, because everyone has a choice about how they look. Do you think it's nice to be rude about how people look?

Maybe it shouldn't matter how people look, did that ever cross your mind?

Maybe you should be less concerned about outward appearances, did that ever cross your mind?

Not at all. I wouldn't dream of being RUDE to anyone about their weight or any or issue. I don't think Charlie was being RUDE at all. She made a comment about herself, it was Wolfie who picked up on it and made it into an issue. If you are sooooo sensitive that you can't allow another person to remark about themselves then I think it's up to you to make yourself feel better, rather than putting it on someone else. I guess it's down to personal responsibility at the end of the day. Wolfie does not help herself. If you watched her with Gina and Jackie watching the VT's it was a prime example, she constantly ate and drank all the way through. The other two didn't. Less hand to mouth would be a start for her, don't you think?

[Me. I Am Salman]

As Wolfy said its insecurity that's relative

[smudgie]

Fat is fat is fat. Most women feel they have fat days.
I am fat, do i feel the word fat should not be mentioned in front of me....no I do not. Wolfy needs to get a bloody grip, her gameplan is backfiring big time.

[smeagol]

she's a pathetic excuse for a human being and a disgrace to all fat people , she only doing it as part of her evil master plan anyway.

its like some guy with a wooden leg sayin you cant say your leg hurts cause its not wooden as well lol
there is massive sized people who would love to be wolfs weight. they could have a go at her the way she did to charlie.

if your slim and you feel fat you should be allowed to say so without worrying about what some greedy pig thinks. if they want to be like that thats their problem.
your weight has nothing to do with them, and visa versa.