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Originally Posted by Donovan81996

I'm not claiming that he's a good friend, I don't care either way, but it's silly to bring that nomination up without bringing up Dexter's nomination of Gina. Why persecute somebody for doing something and praise somebody else for the same thing.

I really like Dexter but no one really dare say anyhing negative as to him for being jumped on. If Callum has said something against Dexter then he will be the new hate figure just as Dan was, and sadly it is Dexter that gets protected on here and very few others.
I was a Dan fan and got pulled up for being too defensive, Dexter can be mentioned on every thread with the same comments and not a word said.

You are spot on,as to the Dexter/Gina nomination but as I say Dexter can do little wrong on here.

Callum looks out for Sam and Sam trusts him, a good friend has 3 choices to make when someone is upset, do they fill them in with the whole truth or do they try to get them over the upset period first then choosing a better time to say all that may have actually been the case.

The boos Sam got were small and there was a mixture of cheers with them too, they all got a mixed reaction and so I can give Callum some credit for trying to spare Sam's feelings further by not jumping in and saying you got boos.

Being a good friend often means picking your moments to do the right thing and sometimes when someone is upset or hurt,you have to sidestep a little.