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Originally Posted by Zee
 Oh god! Pretty gruesome but it's probably been done for centuries! I'm not surprised about the ashes thing but it's so awful to do that; you want to be able to scatter the ashes of your loved one and not just... a bag of dust!
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Meh. Its all just symbolic though isnt it. It makes no difference if its actually your loved one you are scattering, as long as you think it is.
Wat I thought about when he told me that is a friend a while back(like 10 years

) was grounded for 2 months for knocking her grandmothers ashes over. Her mother nearly had a breakdown over it. I'm sure that wouldnt have happened had she known it was just random dust