[Lord Of The Garden]

Originally Posted by the truth

true. but she could easily have taken her aside instead of deliberately humiliating her

Carol didn't humiliate Lauren. She did that to herself.

Lauren humiliated herself in 3 ways last night.

1. Not flushing after using the toilet in the first place
2. Lying and denying it when Carol asked her if she'd used it
3. Not apologising about it like an adult, but instead moaning to Mario about Carol when she was out of the room, like a 10 year old child moaning about their mum.

Lauren's bad habits are the main reason people nominate her. She knows that already as she as spoken about needing to change her ways in the house. She knows now that she must clean up after herself, but especially when using a toilet she shares with the others. They are not all family members, nor are they children, they are all adults and relative strangers to each other. She may be used to people clearing up after her at home, but she is not at home. She needs to wake up to that fact.

Sure it could have been a simple mistake, as we all forget from time to time.

But if anyone else in that house had made the same mistake they would have apologised there and then, not denied it and that would be that.

Lauren didn't apologise, she just acted like a child. She tried denying it like a child. Then sulked about it like a child.

She clearly needs these things pointed out or how else will she learn to change? This strikes me as something her parents failed to do with her 30 years ago.

[the truth]

Originally Posted by Lord Of The Garden

Carol didn't humiliate Lauren. She did that to herself.

Lauren humiliated herself in 3 ways last night.

1. Not flushing after using the toilet in the first place
2. Lying and denying it when Carol asked her if she'd used it
3. Not apologising about it like an adult, but instead moaning to Mario about Carol when she was out of the room, like a 10 year old child moaning about their mum.

Lauren's bad habits are the main reason people nominate her. She knows that already as she as spoken about needing to change her ways in the house. She knows now that she must clean up after herself, but especially when using a toilet she shares with the others. They are not all family members, nor are they children, they are all adults and relative strangers to each other. She may be used to people clearing up after her at home, but she is not at home. She needs to wake up to that fact.

Sure it could have been a simple mistake, as we all forget from time to time.

But if anyone else in that house had made the same mistake they would have apologised there and then, not denied it and that would be that.

Lauren didn't apologise, she just acted like a child. She tried denying it like a child. Then sulked about it like a child.

She clearly needs these things pointed out or how else will she learn to change? This strikes me as something her parents failed to do with her 30 years ago.

Nonsense. Carol deliberately tried to humiliate her.
If she had flushed it once and some was left big deal flush it.
if not flushed at all, big deal flush it
if poo on the seat ok big deal but pull lauren aside quietly not humiliate her
its the way carol always tries to bully and embarrass people , as well as having no empathy for anyones feelings whether its about this or mocking someones plastic surgery or deprivating older housemates of sleep, or shouting berping farting ....the worse thing is she is also a total hypocrite slates people and then denies it, moans about things like celebrities moaning and that's all she does 24 hours a day
she is a vile shallow bully

[Lord Of The Garden]

Originally Posted by the truth

Nonsense. Carol deliberately tried to humiliate her.
If she had flushed it once and some was left big deal flush it.
if not flushed at all, big deal flush it
if poo on the seat ok big deal but pull lauren aside quietly not humiliate her
its the way carol always tries to bully and embarrass people , as well as having no empathy for anyones feelings whether its about this or mocking someones plastic surgery or deprivating older housemates of sleep, or shouting berping farting ....the worse thing is she is also a total hypocrite slates people and then denies it, moans about things like celebrities moaning and that's all she does 24 hours a day
she is a vile shallow bully

I'm no fan of Carol. I think the way she mocks Sophie is quite horrible. I also think Carol enjoys bitching etc.

However she took no such pleasure in pointing this out to Lauren yesterday, if anything she was clearly disgusted and rightly so.

I don't like Carol and i prefer Lauren.

But in this case - Lauren was in the wrong.