[Ammi]

..ok, I will take this completely off topic Arista, to say or infer I am 'Disney-like' would to me depict some kind of 'ideal/perfection' or something like that..?..I am absolutely far from that and as flawed as anyone is..so I do find that very scoffing and scathing and I don't mean that in a confrontational way because this is the only post I am making on this...I always sense that you want or would prefer more negative reactions from me and I'm sorry I can't always give you that ..but just because I can't or choose not to, don't presume to know me or judge me...because I could say the exact same about you if I wanted to and say that you appear to show no emotion at all..and if I did say that, does that make you better or worse than me..?...no, it makes you neither, it makes you exactly the same only an opposite 'extreme' as that's what you often appear to think I am...but I don't judge you, you are just 'Arista' and you are what you are, which I completely respect and have no more comment on....

EDIT:..and yes, there is only one you..there is only one all of us and none of us any better/worse than anyone else..just different..and those differences are what makes and creates balance in everything in life ....