[the truth]

Originally Posted by StupidHoe

This sounds dumb, I'm probably going to sound silly at explaining but I don't judge people by appearance much, I don't care how people look, especially random people like anyone here, in all honesty I think personality matters much more than appearance.

But when it comes to myself, I am very appearance concious and a bit obsessed with trying to make myself look 'pretty'. I hate how I look. I'm really plain and boring, a bit over weight (working on that though and I've lost almost half a stone so I'm only 11lbs off my goal which would be middle of what a girl my age and height should weigh) and I feel my appearance matters a lot but other peoples not so much.

the only people who make you feel like that are other women....if you want a decent relationship you will always find a decent man who doesn't judge by appearance