[x-evenstar-x]

Originally Posted by ChristMASS EFFECT

Ok the scenario is this;

Your in a long term relationship and your discussing the future, your partner wants children but you don't. You've been together for a while and you both love each other a lot so parting ways is untenable.

My question is; Is it selfish to deprive that person of having a child? What can you do?

Maybe a baby isn't all she wants, she might want other things first and a baby is the furthest thing from her mind. Maybe this is a conversation you should have with her to find out exactly how she feels.