[Ammi]

..nothing is going to change the fact that Lee is dead or the horrific way he was killed for his family or take away that pain...those are nightmares that they will live with forever, no matter whether his murderers are alive or dead..there will be no 'closure' to this for them...but they wanted to be shot down by the police, they wanted a quick death and not to face what they did..why should they have what they wanted...they don't deserve that, too many people who do terrible things, don't live to face their crimes..if it was a loved one of mine, I would not want him dead at all, I would not feel they deserved that and that would be something else that would haunt my life...

[thesheriff443]

Originally Posted by Ammi

..nothing is going to change the fact that Lee is dead or the horrific way he was killed for his family or take away that pain...those are nightmares that they will live with forever, no matter whether his murderers are alive or dead..there will be no 'closure' to this for them...but they wanted to be shot down by the police, they wanted a quick death and not to face what they did..why should they have what they wanted...they don't deserve that, too many people who do terrible things, don't live to face their crimes..if it was a loved one of mine, I would not want him dead at all, I would not feel they deserved that and that would be something else that would haunt my life...

how do you know what will bring closure for lee's family?, you dont.
what you want and others want is very different.

you should go and ask the victims familes of rapists and murderers that have been thru the prison sytem only to murderand rape again, what their view is.

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by thesheriff443

how do you know what will bring closure for lee's family?, you dont.
what you want and others want is very different.

you should go and ask the victims familes of rapists and murderers that have been thru the prison sytem only to murderand rape again, what their view is.

..no, I could never know how they feel, I can't imagine it and would never want to...no one who hasn't been where they are right now could...so I, like anyone else can just go with what we feel and which is also based on our own personal experiences as well and I have had a close member of my family who was the victim of a violent crime..that's something that we all live with and will continue to because emotional scars don't heal so quickly as any physical ones do...but what I do know is that I could never wish on the mother of the person who did it, the same thing to have to live with ...and it would only make me feel worse to know that someone else felt the same emotional pain..I know that with complete certainty....so I would never, ever wish death or physical harm on anyone....and it would also make me no better than they are...