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Originally Posted by Zee

What I find interesting about the topic of conversation Dappy brought up is that it's rarely looked at the other way round... as in, there's focus on why is it that when a woman does it she's a slut but a man does it and he's a pimp... but why is it never looked at from the point of view of why do men feel no shame about sleeping around whereas women, whether consciously or not, are really sensitive to being criticised for doing the same thing? Why do men not feel any guilt for doing it? It's an interesting debate, but I don't think Dappy OR Luisa have the mental capacity to discuss such a topic, at least not without it getting personal as shown by tonight!

Because we live in a culture dominated by men and a belief system that perpetuates this idea that women must remain pure and only have sex within a relationship whilst men are celebrated and encouraged on a daily basis to look at women as objects and boast about how many they've slept with. Personally I couldn't care less regardless of gender as I addressed in the other thread, but it really pisses me off how sexist this idea is and how unfortunately prevalent it is.

I will say though is that women do go a long way as to perpetuating this belief themselves and it's sad, because it is mainly girls that you will hear every day discussing other 'sluts' and I find it so depressing to listen to, I just want to shake them and tell them to wake up and realise what's actually happening, how some men are doing exactly the same thing around them and yet no one's paying them any attention.