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Originally Posted by Robodog
Good post.
If anything it would probably make it worse if she argued back. It would only give them more ammo and they would use her retalliation as an excuse to justify their behaviour towards her.
Plus if she argued back, it would make it look like a 50/50 argument which it isn't. Right now it's 100% from them. Her quietness is making it very obvious who the aggressors are.
In that sense, she is dealing with it perfectly by not falling into their trap. Retalliation is EXACTLY what they want her to do.
It's still not pleasant to watch though. Put yourself in Jale's shoes and it's a horrible place to be, whether you call it bullying or not.
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Brilliant post Robodog.
I was going to post something similar, but you have put it perfectly.
Ash,
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