[Josy]

Originally Posted by Verbal

Hypothetically if you were say a 40 year old man and you were out and met a 40 year old woman in a pub, you would have absolutely no idea she was a prostitute 20 years ago unless she told you. Absolutely no way would I 'run a mile' if I was Ash. And I would hope that I could be considered to be a decent man.

Any decent woman would/should tell someone that anyway if they planned on taking the relationship further but it's what the person would do when they did find out we were talking about..and I think most men wouldn't be interested in someone that slept with people for a living.

Also your comment about judging people making us less of a person? I couldn't disagree more with that, we have always judged, whether that be situations or people we have always done it and I would say it was instilled into us, an instinct if you like, we judge people in the street without realising it, we judge if a situation is dangerous and make decisions on how to react based on that judgement, judging definitely does not make anyone less off a person, what about actual Judges that do that for a living? are they lesser people because of their job? The comment you made was far too much of a blanket statement IMO now if you had said we shouldnt judge people on looks for example I could have agreed but to say any sort of judging makes us lesser people or small minded is actually a pretty blinkered view IMO