[Verbal]

Originally Posted by Josy

Any decent woman would/should tell someone that anyway if they planned on taking the relationship further but it's what the person would do when they did find out we were talking about..and I think most men wouldn't be interested in someone that slept with people for a living.

Also your comment about judging people making us less of a person? I couldn't disagree more with that, we have always judged, whether that be situations or people we have always done it and I would say it was instilled into us, an instinct if you like, we judge people in the street without realising it, we judge if a situation is dangerous and make decisions on how to react based on that judgement, judging definitely does not make anyone less off a person, what about actual Judges that do that for a living? are they lesser people because of their job? The comment you made was far too much of a blanket statement IMO now if you had said we shouldnt judge people on looks for example I could have agreed but to say any sort of judging makes us lesser people or small minded is actually a pretty blinkered view IMO

You're just being ridiculous now, Josy. It is quite clear in the context of this thread what I meant when talking about judging people.
You're saying that it is ok to hold something against someone for their entire lives even though it may be well in their distant past?
I'm not talking about the law or judging dangerous decisions. I'm talking about vilifying a young girl who went through an unfortunate phase in her past, for the rest of her life; which by the looks of it a (not so suprisingly) large amount of people are more than prepared to do.
She should not be ashamed of her past. She didn't go around mugging people, burgling houses or working as a hitman. She had sex with paying, willing customers.