[Miranda123]

We now know that he was 'let down' last year in a relationship, not sure if the girl in question cheated or not but that was the impression given by his Mum on last nights main show, but...........

am I the only one who thinks he is a control freak?

The whole thing about telling Kim that she could go and pick up her stuff at her flat (that she shares with her b/f) but only if she goes with a member of Stevens family!! (Sopranos??) and that she can NOT speak to her b/f about this whole thing, but must wait until Steven comes out (he's so sure that he is gonna be in there longer than her) because he will NOT have her talking to the guy without him being there

Lets ignore the fact that this guy (Sasha, I think) has done f..k all wrong, and has had to suffer the humiliation of watching his bird on TV falling (not sure about that) for another guy, but now that other guy, is calling the shots about Sasha's realationship??

If you are gonna dump someone after a 3 year relationship (3 yrs according to Sasha, 2 according to Kim) then it is downright cruel to take along your new love interest to dump him, Im sure Sasha is not gonna thump her one!

Im not saying its not possible for Steven to fall for her in 5 weeks, he may have, but after 5 short weeks (in fact less, cause they didnt get together straight away, cause for the first two weeks he had his head firmly planted inside Paulines arse) he is now trying to control every aspect of her life!!

He is a typical controlling man, and its very creepy to watch

For him to tell Kimberley what she can and cannot do when she gets out of the house, should be a massive wake up call for her, I would never go anywhere near a guy who thought he could dictate to me about who I see, where I go, and what I do, he's even saying she can move in with his family while he's still in the house, wtf???

I think this is doomed to fail, as I think Kimberly is a lot less into this than he is, but even if she loves him, she should run a mile!

Once he started telling her what to do, I would have told him to do one!

Has anyone on here watch that TV Drama, "Murdered by my Boyfriend"........it all starts with this type of controlling behaviour, creepy!

Maya Angelou: "When someone shows you who they are, believe them, the first time"

[Livia]

It is creepy. Exceedingly creepy. Why isn't a supposedly intelligent, educated woman saying, hold on a minute... that's not going to be the way this plays out.

Loving that you quoted Maya Angelou, Miranda.

[Niamh.]

Great Post Miranda, i agree whole heartedly with everything you said, who the hell does he think he is? And as for Kim she's either a wet door mat or completely playing along with him, either way I have no respect for her

[Daffodil]

Yes Steven is very controlling. But I think we are painting Sacha as a poor wronged boyfriend when in fact he could well be little more than a pimp who doesn't mind his Girlfriend/business partner 'opening it' on TV with a big wally for publicity

[Miranda123]

Originally Posted by Livia

It is creepy. Exceedingly creepy. Why isn't a supposedly intelligent, educated woman saying, hold on a minute... that's not going to be the way this plays out.

Loving that you quoted Maya Angelou, Miranda.

Thanks Livia, I loved her!!!

I think in answer to your question, Kim doesnt actually say anything at all does she??

I mean Ive heard her speak, she definetly moves her mouth around, but she seems to manage to do that without ever actually saying anything at all!! Its bizarre, even in her 'rage' (yes Im aware how funny it is to use an emotional word like rage in the same sentence as Kim) she relied on Helen to fight Ashleigh for her??

[Miranda123]

Originally Posted by Daffodil

Yes Steven is very controlling. But I think we are painting Sacha as a poor wronged boyfriend when in fact he could well be little more than a pimp who doesn't mind his Girlfriend/business partner 'opening it' on TV with a big wally for publicity

He sounded like an okay guy when he called into BOTS, plus when she went in she said she was dating. I think the poor sap has been turned over!

If he's got any sense, he will dump her before she gets out and put all her stuff in bin bags and give it to Scope!!

[Miranda123]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

Great Post Miranda, i agree whole heartedly with everything you said, who the hell does he think he is? And as for Kim she's either a wet door mat or completely playing along with him, either way I have no respect for her

I dont understand any of it Niamh, I wouldnt let my husband talk to me like that and Ive just celebrated 25yrs with him!!

[Glenn.]

I've been noticing this sort of behaviour before last nights episode. I've seen it happen first hand so know the warning signs.

I hope Kimberley's family/friends pick up on this and warn her, she seems rather stupid to see it herself.

[Miranda123]

Originally Posted by Glenn

I've been noticing this sort of behaviour before last nights episode. I've seen it happen first hand so know the warning signs.

I hope Kimberley's family/friends pick up on this and warn her, she seems rather stupid to see it herself.

Something about her facial expression, (I know its usually frozen in place) last night when he said that she couldnt go back to her flat alone, tells me that she was shocked, but she needs to tell him to back the fu.k off before either of them leave.

This is the one time that she needs to open her mouth and say do one!

[puzzled]

Spot on, Miranda. His whole family is weird and controlling. All of them go for facials and eyebrow plucking every week? Who'd want to marry into that mess? He's needy, controlling, and dim. What a catch.

[Josy]

Agree with everything in the OP.

I do think Kim was a bit surprised at a couple of things he said when they were both sat outside (and he was saying she wouldn't be speaking to Sasha alone) but then she clearly never let it affect her much.

[Beso]

I think he's just trying to implement every situation into his gameplan..thus he talks crap most of the time.

[Cherie]

Kimborely is a playboy bunny she will have met alot of Stevens in her past, she is playing the girl next door who has met the love of her life beautifully, never mind Chris the actor Kimborely has managed to make some of the public forget she is a liar and a cheat lol she will eat Steven up and spit him out when he has served his purpose

[smeagol]

all cause he is a mummys boy and needs constant attention . he will be breast feeding on kim soon and suck that cow dry lol

[Miranda123]

Originally Posted by puzzled

Spot on, Miranda. His whole family is weird and controlling. All of them go for facials and eyebrow plucking every week? Who'd want to marry into that mess? He's needy, controlling, and dim. What a catch.

lol can you imagine, they sound like something out of Psychoville!!

Like Towie on acid!!!

[Miranda123]

Originally Posted by smeagol

all cause he is a mummys boy and needs constant attention . he will be breast feeding on kim soon and suck that cow dry lol

thats a weird picture you paint there Smeagol, but possibly accurate lol

I wouldnt mind betting, he is still breast fed at home!

[Crimson Dynamo]

he is emotionally very immature


I am still not that convinced that he is straight

[Livia]

I think he's straight... I just think he's one of those men who is a bit of an old woman.

[HBB1508]

He really gives me the creeps and is far to controlling but I think Kim is playing him as much as he is using her (no puns intended!).

[Cherie]

Originally Posted by HBB1508

He really gives me the creeps and is far to controlling but I think Kim is playing him as much as he is using her (no puns intended!).

Yes she is and trust me Kim is going to come out of this looking alot better than Steven, he is a laughing stock now give him another week the mind boggles, just watched a clip of him saying "he is in a relationship"

[Crimson Dynamo]

Did Kim say why she had not told Steven?

[Cherie]

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

Did Kim say why she had not told Steven?

No (I'm saying this in a very quiet voice while staring at the ceiling btw)

[Metalface Mark]

It was discussed in another thread (http://www.thisisbigbrother.com/foru...480&highlight=)

The consensus is that yes, he is creepy!

[billy123]

I get the impression he has been brought up in a very regimented fashion entirely aimed at him growing up with good business acumen.
Pushy parents that have made him focus his whole life on being director of a company much like they are.
It was telling when he said in the diary room when upset about something "I resign" when talking about an argument with someone (it might have been Kim im not sure)

He seems really emotionally unequipped and immature when it comes to personal matters.
He is a very strange turkey but i dont think he is nasty he just seems really ill equipped at dealing with life thanks to a strange upbringing that hasnt allowed him to go out and learn from his own mistakes.

[Chuckyegg]

He's behaving like a classic passive aggressive controlling monster. Women should run a mile.