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Quand il pleut, il pleut
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Join Date: Aug 2009
Posts: 82,672
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Quand il pleut, il pleut
Join Date: Aug 2009
Posts: 82,672
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..I think Helen maybe is learning something but I don't think that her 'journey' if she has started it in the BB house, will ever reach it's destination there because she still has far too little self awareness or empathy with others who aren't her 'friends'..empathy with our friends is the easy one, it doesn't take that much effort but putting yourself in the shoes of your 'enemy' and people she doesn't like is something she needs to do when she speaks to them in the way she does and knows herself how sensitive she is to these things or any criticism...she's a working progress, or I hope she is, it would be nice to think this experience has made her think about things more...
..but in their ways, they've all gone on a journey, something like this must make a difference in your life, whether it be a short termed one or a lasting thing...I think Ashleigh has as well..I don't think she was spiteful/nasty or vindictive at all in her manipulation in the Power girl thing, she simply played a game like Marlon did and like they all are and it didn't work out and I think she has learned from that as well and learned to also be a bit more tolerant and maybe take time out to spend a bit more time with her housemates getting to know them and not isolate herself so much...maybe that's a throwback of feeling isolated when she was bullied, who knows...
..it's been an exhausting house to watch so must have been horrendously so to live in and I think they're all finally reigning in their judgements of each other a bit and actually trying to get along and get to know each other better..will it last..?...probably not....
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