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Originally Posted by Ammi

..it's funny really Riona because I'm almost the complete opposite...I had all of those sympathies and empathies at the beginning and tried to 'look beyond' her behaviour as to why she reacts the way she does...but then 'understanding' it doesn't change it or the results of it or the effects on the people she dislikes and 'targets'...the people at the end of her wrath which is guised as 'honesty'...and all of the housemates and indeed all of us also have a past/experiences that make us what we are...and no such allowances would be made for any of us and no such allowances are made for any other housemate in the same way so it's a bit like bringing her past in as a negative and judging her on it..?...if it's to be left out of the house..(which is right..)..then it has to be completely left out with no allowances either..that was my thought process anyway....

Fair enough Ammi That's what these forums are for and I admire the way you put your views across as even though I don't agree with them you have made your case without slagging off either the housemate or me. Maybe I am a sucker but I would give her a chance. I am not talking about her past with the Wayne Rooney incident or anything that was in the public eye. I don't know ..... maybe the father of her son hurt her and maybe its no excuse for he behaviour but I have grown to like her far far more than I like either Chris or Ashleigh and I know I am in the minority