[Jules2]

Originally Posted by rubymoo

People are entitled to support who they want to.

I'm lucky enough to be able to understand that there's a reason for Helen's behaviour, she is a very sad human being that struggles to live in an adult world effectively, she does feel threatened by other people which is why she goes into gobby mode, the language she uses is acceptable within her friendship circle, i've never heard of anyone being called a slug or a wasp so maybe it's an area thing, and Helen would be my nightmare, but she is not Satan and Ashleigh is not an Angel they are people.

I was bullied as an adult in the work place, everytime by a woman, but i look back at those times and know it was them with the problem not me, they felt threatened by me.

I hasten to add that i always had the last laugh

Aw Ruby I sympathise with you but the last laugh isnt always the best laugh. There are many of us who can see the reason for each HMs behaviour, many of us have been through trials and tribulations but to be rewarded with a vast amount of money isnt really the way forward imo. We are all on a learning curb and the money could be to say well done your behaviour was impeccable. What a HM gains in one way that HM risks losing in another and respect is a great reward to own. Money, whilst a good energy, does not always fill a need for acceptance. Once it is gone what is there left if one has lost their self respect?