[Jake.]

Originally Posted by Firewire

It wasn't the fact that it was a weight jibe, it could have been a gay jibe or even him just calling me something that doesn't particularly relate - I would have felt the same way. I was just caught off guard as I'd never experienced that before. Now that's it has happened I hope I can deal with it better next time.

But you're absolutely right.

Yeah I see what you mean, i think I'd feel the same.. Powerless in a sense.. We all react in different ways to situations, perhaps the way you reacted (not giving him the time of day) was what was meant to happen?