[Ninastar]

Originally Posted by Ammi

...also a nope from me..most people, if not all have an element of being judgemental about them..judging is a part of our characters, our life experiences, things we associate etc...but it's a balance thing and being 'open' to changing our mind etc if we've judged harshly ..but there are extreme judgemental people who never do that and I'm guessing that's what you mean...?...but no, not a good quality I don't think ..and interestingly in my experience, the 'most judgemental' are ones who themselves don't like to be judged....

i also find that it's the 'love everyone no matter what!!!!!!' people who are the most judgemental...

Originally Posted by Ammi

..so, maybe more or less what Caitlin just said..she sneaked her post in there while I was still typing..Caitlin I'm judging you for that....

**** off Ammi, I judged you WAYYY before you judged me!!!!

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by Ninastar

i also find that it's the 'love everyone no matter what!!!!!!' people who are the most judgemental...



**** off Ammi, I judged you WAYYY before you judged me!!!!

..but they don't love everyone if they're judgemental..but I think that generally 'judgements' are made on out own life experiences and maybe personality traits and stuff like that, that we may have been hurt by or had negative experiences with..?...I think with the 'appearance' thing though, rather than personality..maybe that's just a 'humour' I don't know or just another way of 'negative expression'...I have no idea on any psychologies if there are any/sometimes I suspect it could be 'deflection'....


..anyway, you cat loving/baby-sitting/GypsyGoth wannabee, get of a my cloud....I've just about had enough of your nonsense this morning...

[Ninastar]

Originally Posted by Ammi

..but they don't love everyone if they're judgemental..but I think that generally 'judgements' are made on out own life experiences and maybe personality traits and stuff like that, that we may have been hurt by or had negative experiences with..?...I think with the 'appearance' thing though, rather than personality..maybe that's just a 'humour' I don't know or just another way of 'negative expression'...I have no idea on any psychologies if there are any/sometimes I suspect it could be 'deflection'....


..anyway, you cat loving/baby-sitting/GypsyGoth wannabee, get of a my cloud....I've just about had enough of your nonsense this morning...

I think you're totally right. But yeah, I just dont believe people who say they aren't judgemental and I never will. Some of the people who say they aren't, are actually the worst... From my experience anyway

The funny thing about this is that people take your opinions so seriously...

Anyway, I best go now, you racist child punching bitch

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by Ninastar

I think you're totally right. But yeah, I just dont believe people who say they aren't judgemental and I never will. Some of the people who say they aren't, are actually the worst... From my experience anyway

The funny thing about this is that people take your opinions so seriously...

Anyway, I best go now, you racist child punching bitch

..yeah, I agree, everyone is 'judgemental' to a degree but I think it's also a 'positive V negative' thing as to how extreme that is and what people 'judge' will differ from person to person..balance is good in everything but extremes in anything aren't etc...and someone might say..I don't judge because they don't have a strong enough opinion on that thing, maybe..?.but then on something else they feel strongly about, they can make 'judgements'...rather than opinions as in objective opinions because I think it's also impossible to always be objective with things that might have personal associations for you...


...oh and I have a day off/ha2/judge that....