[Kyle]

Originally Posted by Urwreatha

im american, lol

Oh wow, my apologies I thought you were a Brit. What State you hail from?

[Ninastar]

Originally Posted by ChristMASS EFFECT

Oh wow, my apologies I thought you were a Brit. What State you hail from?

its difficult, technically i am a brit, as i was born in scotland, but i grew up in Maryland, so im used to calling myself american

but yes, Maryland is where I lived!

[Kyle]

Originally Posted by Urwreatha

its difficult, technically i am a brit, as i was born in scotland, but i grew up in Maryland, so im used to calling myself american

but yes, Maryland is where I lived!

I've seen you mention Harrogate too, which is why I thought you were a Brit. You've been around a bit, where do you prefer? Here or North America?

[Ninastar]

Originally Posted by ChristMASS EFFECT

I've seen you mention Harrogate too, which is why I thought you were a Brit. You've been around a bit, where do you prefer? Here or North America?

wHAT ARE YOU TRYING TO SAY!?????

and lol yeah thats where I live now. Good old Harrogate. Where about in south yorkshire are you?

and hmmm its so hard to choose. I love it here, but i much prefer America. The thing is, my mum is scottish and my dads american, so if I move back, i'd have to go and live with him and his awful gf, and leave my mum behind

if my mum and dad were both going, i'd be there in a heartbeat

[Thotmas]

Wow sorry Nina. And it puts you in a tough situation because if you complain to your dad about her it might not go so well.

My dad has a new wife (which he married without telling us) I try to be civil with her for my dads sake but my mum recently told me if I let her in, her and I are done.

[kirklancaster]

Originally Posted by Ithinkiloveyoutoo

Wow sorry Nina. And it puts you in a tough situation because if you complain to your dad about her it might not go so well.

My dad has a new wife (which he married without telling us) I try to be civil with her for my dads sake but my mum recently told me if I let her in, her and I are done.

This is unbelievable. Your mum may be hurt by the collapse of her marriage - and rightly so - but to issue you with such an ultimatum is very, very wrong.

You have two parents and will always have two parents, and if you still have a loving normal relationship with your dad, and providing his new wife is not the 'bitch from hell', then you must accept his relationship with her unless you wish to put him in the intolerable and unfair position of having to ultimately choose between his new wife or his child.

Try to have a word with your mum ITILYT, and explain to her that you're only being civil to your dad's new partner for his sake and in no way are you 'letting her in'. Reinforce the fact to your mum that no one could ever replace her as far as you're concerned and that being 'civil' to your dad's new partner is just that - tolerance without acceptance, politeness without affection.

I hope it goes well for you.

[Kyle]

Originally Posted by Urwreatha

wHAT ARE YOU TRYING TO SAY!?????

and lol yeah thats where I live now. Good old Harrogate. Where about in south yorkshire are you?

and hmmm its so hard to choose. I love it here, but i much prefer America. The thing is, my mum is scottish and my dads american, so if I move back, i'd have to go and live with him and his awful gf, and leave my mum behind

if my mum and dad were both going, i'd be there in a heartbeat

You're a geographical slut ma'am

I'm on the border between Sheffield and Rotherham. Depends what mood I'm in where I'm from that way

What is it about America you love? I've always dreamt about the idea of moving to Vermont or somewhere like that when I'm older. Just something about the States that intrigues me.