[jaxie]

Originally Posted by MargeryFan

I think your attitude is kinda part of the problem. You wouldn't put yourself in that situation, but you should be able to help a person in need without having to worry about such things, and if someone did behave inappropriately, guess what? it still wouldn't be your fault, no matter what you say.

Of course the outside world has bearing on what happens in the house. If she's had tough experiences outside the house she's going to react that way. Everyone reacts differently because everyone has had different experiences in life. What bothers me is when people criticise the victim for over-reacting but don't criticise the person in the wrong, even though they showed little, to no remorse for what they did, or how they made that person feel.

I think my attitude is sensible, measured and not melodramatic. As I said what he did was inappropriate but did he commit a crime? Hardly. It about perspective. If that sickens anyone on the forum I'm not coming in the toilet while you vom either!