[Ninastar]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

If I was you I would just try to limit my interactions with her. You're always going to be your dads daughter, she can't change that, no matter what she says or does. The less you're around her the less she can say about you. I would just say to your dad that you would prefer to do stuff with him on your own as you don't get to see him alot so you'd like to have quality time with just him when you do. I don't think there's any other way to go about it that won't cause some sort of an argument or make your dad feel like he has to "pick a side"

When it comes to your sister because she's actually living with him, I think her best bet is to sit down with your dad and talk about the "house rules" with him and see if they can't come to a compromise but at the end of the day it is his house so she has to live by the rules he puts forward

I've asked him about spending time with just him before, because that's not a nasty thing to do and he hasn't listened. She HAS to be there with him every minute he's not working. I manage to meet him after work sometimes, but he never stays long because she calls him and is like 'omg are you okay!! so worried!!!!' when really, she just wants to see what he's doing and who he's with.