[chuff me dizzy]

Originally Posted by arista

Yes Chuff
a Slapper
a Right Slapper



Sign Of The Times

Arista as you know Im nothing if not 100% honest

[Pink Pegasus]

Originally Posted by just thinkin

fair enough, but funnily enough Jade didn't meet somebody to change her mind and settle down - she already knows that when's she's finished playing the field she will settle down with one person - thats not polyamourus - thats playing the field like all young people do before they settle down. She's made a bit of a plonker out of herself really. if she really was polygamous she wouldn't even be thinking about settling down with one person.

Yeah that's what I questioned about her explanation too. She also described it as "just a phase" whilst it was my understanding that it was a lifelong belief somebody had (or at least thought it would be lifelong and didn't think of it as just a phase). She contradicted herself too when in the one conversation she said she believed you can absolutely love more than one person but then went on to say something like she believes you can actually have only one soulmate/true love (?) and that she would marry that person. She was "free to the bone" but at the same time wants one day to settle, marry and be completely monogamous to that one person and for them to be completely monogamous to her.

I think she was just simply describing that she is young, doesn't want to settle yet and is into open relationships. Nothing wrong with that and she definitely doesn't deserve to get called nasty names because of it.

I don't think what she described was genuine polyamory though because she said it was just a phase and contradicted herself a few times. (I could be wrong though)

I think she just used the word polyamory for attention or else to sound interesting or different in the audition process but she just came across sounding a bit silly to me.

Not too keen on the word "immoral" in this instance myself though. It does sound very judgemental to me, but I suppose he's entitled to his belief's too. I wouldn't agree with him though that it was "immoral".

[armand.kay]

why are people so censored about what she does with her sexuality? maybe people should focus on their own relationships and stop being so judgmental.

[RoseGarden]

Originally Posted by Absorption

To be charitable, he is very young.

But, yes, you're right!

Mind you, if he changed his political persuasion I wouldn't rule him out getting the Labour leadership role...

Haha unfortunately (or fortunately??) for me, I am Irish and have no clue about British politics lol

[Beso]

I would be checking it regularly for crabs.

[Absorption]

Originally Posted by RoseGarden

Haha unfortunately (or fortunately??) for me, I am Irish and have no clue about British politics lol

Okay, you're elected to Parliament!

[crazycolaist]

Who are you to judge the word immorality? Our morality is based on the 10 commandments & adultery is one of them but in 2015 the defenition of adultery has completly changed and is so less religious because people are finding out one cannot judge on another for trying to live the path whats set out for themselves when its easier to just let us all live the way we want without the obvious coming from that commandments)

[Nancy.]

Originally Posted by just thinkin

the fact that you have a woman spouting that she is polyamouous to people who have never heard it before, and she doesn't actually know what it means herself might have something to do with how they see it. As I said in a post at the start of the show, there is an old-fashioned word for it - its called swinging. Nothing wrong with that either. Its not a new concept - it's as old as the world. Jade is just playing the field until she settles down - what mostly every other person her age is doing since time began.

[jennyjuniper]

If Jade really believes that she wants to spread herself around (her choice, not that I agree with it) Then why does she close herself and that person off to everyone else as she did with Nick?

[joeysteele]

Personally I would not condemn her for her position on this, it is her life after all and also the views she holds as to relationships.

However,his view of it, is also his views and he therefore. for me anyway, has the right to say what he thinks as to it too.

Once she had revealed that was her take on relationships, that opened up discussion from others as to their feelings on the issue too.
Had she kept it to herself,that would have been different.

Personally, I would be more in agreement with him while completely accepting others must live their lives for them and not others.

[Crimson Dynamo]

i cant see anyone wanting to shag her at all


as she is f uckingannoyingamous

[Mokka]

Originally Posted by jennyjuniper

If Jade really believes that she wants to spread herself around (her choice, not that I agree with it) Then why does she close herself and that person off to everyone else as she did with Nick?

Because she isn't truly Polyamourous... she doesn't have an open heart of love... she is a dry bitter before her time young girl who needs to get a dictionary before giving herself labels and airs.

[Nancy.]

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

i cant see anyone wanting to shag her at all

Me neither. She'd be ideal for the type of bloke that enjoys a 3 minute fumble in the dark or back of the car, but you wouldn't want take her home to introduce to your family.

[Chero]

Well, based on what Joel thinks is moral, I think it's a fair call.

Not only that, but for Jade, I get the impression that she doesn't just have open relationships, but that she uses sex with people to get where she wants to go. Definitely an immoral way to go about things, imo. I'm not judging someone who has one night stands, or friends with benefits, but frankly, looking at her, I'm wondering about how she would get work as a model otherwise.