[Josy]

He was clearly joking but Sam was right to tell him to stop if she was uncomfortable with it.

If someone asked me that and I knew they were joking I wouldn't mind.

[Dollface]

Originally Posted by JoshBB

It would come across to me that way because I have actually been asked that question numerous times, and it is usually shouted at me from across the street and then met with immediate laughter when I tell them "I'm gay if thats what you mean.". It's probably just my area, but it definitely has homophobic vibes to it.

Ohh, I get you now. I thought you was just being overly PC tbh but I guess with what you've experienced, you're going to attach homophobia to it.

[Jamie89]

Depends if he's fit lol

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by JoshBB

Correct, but in my experience that has only been ever asked in a pejorative way and so that is why I would perceive it as homophobic would it have been me asked the question - as that was the point of the OP. I hope that makes sense now?

But, again, you can't judge someone's use of a word or anything based on someone else's.

If someone used the word fudge in a homophobic slur and then I asked if you would like some actual fudge, it's a different context.

I hope that makes sense now?

[Merry Mockmas]

No because my friends and family would be watching.

[armand.kay]

[smudgie]

To be honest, I would just tell him the truth, I wouldn't take him anywhere.

[Daniel.]

I have been asked it loads and it doesn't bother me.

[Pronshi]

Have not seen the episode yet but in the context if someone asked me that I wouldn't be bothered.

[Rorkimaru]

Originally Posted by JoshBB

No its invasive of a persons sexual privacy, and if anyone said that to me it would definitely come across to me as homophobic.

As you're a gay man I can see why you'd interpret that as homophobic if said to you but it's worth noting that Marc put up posts on the pro-equality side of the recent marriage referendum in Ireland so I find it unjust to brand him as homophobic. Apologies if I've misinterpreted you and you were not saying that about Marc, I just think it's fair enough to point out that he's not anti-gay.

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by Daniel_

I have been asked it loads and it doesn't bother me.

It's to be expected from grindr tho.

[Lister of Smeg]

Me no my ex GF however well lets just say she can fit a lot more up a there than I ever thought you could before

[Lister of Smeg]

Originally Posted by Mystic Mock

No because my friends and family would be watching.

So I'll take that as a yes then

[Jamie89]

Originally Posted by Lister of Smeg

So I'll take that as a yes then

Haha! Brilliant. There should be more threads like this

[Nancy.]

NO!!!!!!!

[Kizzy]

[M X]

I have been asked that many times

The answer remains yes.

[adjoa]

Originally Posted by M X

I have been asked that many times

The answer remains yes.

[kirklancaster]

Originally Posted by Marsh.

I'd whip my cock out and ask him if he wants that up his arse.

Then watch him run from the house screaming.

I don't think so Marsh - the obnoxious little non-entity dimwit would probably just succumb to his natural closeted desires and suck on it with gusto before dropping his pants and bending over.

[kirklancaster]

Originally Posted by LiamBB

Depends if he's fit lol

[Santa's NaughtiNess]

After watching today's clips i think he's a bully. Glad that Cristian isn't rising to the bait.

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by kirklancaster

I don't think so Marsh - the obnoxious little non-entity dimwit would probably just succumb to his natural closeted desires and suck on it with gusto before dropping his pants and bending over.

Don't get my hopes up.