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All of that is so possessive! There are "friendship hours"?? Eh?? And a limit to sexy banter? Where's the fun in that?? If I want to PM Livia and Kizzy and suggest a weird, aggressive sexual trist where they beat me and each other then I bloody well will!

The one point that I guess is important there, is the sharing MORE with someone else than with your partner. That's a problem I think. I've shared plenty with other people of both genders but nothing that me and the missus wouldn't or haven't brought up with each other. We talk about everything, whether it's negative or not, there's no point holding back really. That's not what I consider a proper relationship.