[Cal.]

Yeah probably.

[Josy]

Not a chance in hell, relationships are built on trust imho and you cannot trust a cheater.

[Johnnyuk123]

I would never take them back. The only chance they have of ever redeeming themselves is with the next person foolish enough to let a cheat into their life.

[DemolitionRed]

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

many people forgive and carry on because the fear of breaking up and being alone outweighs the other pain

I agree with your first post and I agree with this too.

I loved the man who betrayed me and I know, even though he did betray me, he loved me too. I did leave him eventually because although I still loved him, his stupid act had a domino effect on our relationship but when I did walk out, the grief of loss was immeasurable.

Leaving someone you love is one of the hardest things a person can do. You can't just flick a switch and stop loving them.

[smudgie]

Tempted to just say no.
Part of being so happily married is that I have never doubted my husbands love for me and trust him with my life.
An affair or a quick hump would change all that in an instant.

[Jordan.]

No

[Jamie89]

I did, and even though it still ended up not working out in the end (we broke up some time later - not because of the cheating), I don't regret it for a second. It completely depends on your individual situation I think. If it had been someone else or a different situation maybe I wouldn't have, but it felt like the right thing for me and us at the time. It was a one night stand he had though and as some have already said, I don't think I'd have forgiven a full blown relationship. If you are going to forgive and move on though you HAVE to let it go. The moment you bring it up during an argument or whenever, then you know you haven't really forgiven them at all, and you need to deal with that or move on from the relationship otherwise you'll destroy each other.

[Denver]

For fun Yes relationship No

[Jay.]

i would never get back with someone if we ever broke up

one smash in one little piece of glass can cause bigger cracks it just wouldn't be worth it in the long run besides i bet they weren't even hot

[Johnnyuk123]

Originally Posted by Josy

Not a chance in hell, relationships are built on trust imho and you cannot trust a cheater.

I would whisk them away to a cabin in the woods for a romantic weekend then get my mate Jason to have a word with them.