[Vicky.]

Originally Posted by ChristmasNeeve

Sounds like Smudgie could be onto something you know Vicky, if she loved her bedtime routine before and her bedtime routine mostly involved you and then you went away?

Yeah I have never thought of that before..it makes a lot of sense. Mind her bedtime was either of us, probably more Gavin than me tbh, but the whole disrupting her life by me being away for a fortnight..i would never have thought that a child would be so..bothered (wrong word but you know what I mean) by that. And that it would still be affecting her now

If it is this, which seems likely now..how one earth do I sort it out?! Been back coming up a month now and tried everything to settle her back to how she was and nothing has worked