[Mac1978]

Stephanie's behaviour isn't to my liking. However, I really don't feel that I have any right to impose my moral code on others.

By contrast Gemma feels that she can/should. For me, that makes her far more annoying and less likeable than Stephanie. However, 'bullying' might be the wrong word. That word gets thrown around like snuff at a wake - at this stage, it's lost all meaning. Her moralistic clap trap did tend to isolate Stephanie, so maybe that's where the feeling came from. However, I don't think her intention was to isolate Stephanie. I don't think she gave a fiddler's whether Stephanie was isolated or otherwise - she just wanted to cast herself as a 'moral' voice.