[zakman440]

...yet Steph was the one calling her names and impersonating her? Where is the logic?!

[Denver]

Gemma is a 2 faced, Nosey, Bossy, thieving bully

[Ant.]

Originally Posted by Adam.

Gemma is a 2 faced, Nosey, Bossy, thieving bully

HOW is she a bully tho

[LukeB]

I don't think it's bullying because both are giving it to each other.

[Denver]

The way she just spoke to Darren backs this up

[Pete.]

Steph is the biggest bully in there

[EspeonBB]

Steph really lacks self awareness

[Mac1978]

Stephanie's behaviour isn't to my liking. However, I really don't feel that I have any right to impose my moral code on others.

By contrast Gemma feels that she can/should. For me, that makes her far more annoying and less likeable than Stephanie. However, 'bullying' might be the wrong word. That word gets thrown around like snuff at a wake - at this stage, it's lost all meaning. Her moralistic clap trap did tend to isolate Stephanie, so maybe that's where the feeling came from. However, I don't think her intention was to isolate Stephanie. I don't think she gave a fiddler's whether Stephanie was isolated or otherwise - she just wanted to cast herself as a 'moral' voice.

[hot2go]

Gemma is a master manipulator who lacks the necessary charm to back it up.

[lewis111]

I voted wrong option though the poll said Is Gemma a bully
Steph is though

[Stormy]

Originally Posted by Mac1978

Stephanie's behaviour isn't to my liking. However, I really don't feel that I have any right to impose my moral code on others.

By contrast Gemma feels that she can/should. For me, that makes her far more annoying and less likeable than Stephanie. However, 'bullying' might be the wrong word. That word gets thrown around like snuff at a wake - at this stage, it's lost all meaning. Her moralistic clap trap did tend to isolate Stephanie, so maybe that's where the feeling came from. However, I don't think her intention was to isolate Stephanie. I don't think she gave a fiddler's whether Stephanie was isolated or otherwise - she just wanted to cast herself as a 'moral' voice.

[Tribal Spaceman]

Who is Steph bullying exactly, herself?

Gemma has used Steph's questionable behaviour to make herself look good. Nothing more. Steph is woefully immature and has a foul mouth but most of the things she said about Gemma were bang on the money.

[Papillon]

Gemma is the bully of the house

[the truth]

2 evil narcisissts

[RodHull]

Originally Posted by LukeB

I don't think it's bullying because both are giving it to each other.

Except one of them is on their own and the other has half the housemates wedged up their ample backside telling her how wonderful she is...

Ill let you decide which is which.

Bullying is isolating, im not a fan of throwing the word around lightly but its exactly what gemma does. She isolates and the leaves them with their only option to humble themselves before her (see steph apologising) then shes got their balls for life basically and her band of followers grows.

[MB.]

Eject the witch imho

[Vicky.]

Neither are bullies ffs

[Mokka]

Originally Posted by Mac1978

Stephanie's behaviour isn't to my liking. However, I really don't feel that I have any right to impose my moral code on others.

By contrast Gemma feels that she can/should. For me, that makes her far more annoying and less likeable than Stephanie. However, 'bullying' might be the wrong word. That word gets thrown around like snuff at a wake - at this stage, it's lost all meaning. Her moralistic clap trap did tend to isolate Stephanie, so maybe that's where the feeling came from. However, I don't think her intention was to isolate Stephanie. I don't think she gave a fiddler's whether Stephanie was isolated or otherwise - she just wanted to cast herself as a 'moral' voice.

[RodHull]

It struck me as well the irony how Gemma banged on about how if John was Darrens mate he'd have made the point about him smoking in private quietly (A fair point) then apparently although she likes Steph (??) she felt it best to stand in the middle of the room and loudly proclaim how she believed what they were doing was wrong in a confrontational way.

[Kazanne]

Originally Posted by RodHull

It struck me as well the irony how Gemma banged on about how if John was Darrens mate he'd have made the point about him smoking in private quietly (A fair point) then apparently although she likes Steph (??) she felt it best to stand in the middle of the room and loudly proclaim how she believed what they were doing was wrong in a confrontational way.

You do know these truths will go unanswered as they are spot on and truthful.

[the truth]

theyre both scum......gemma's a real snake , steph over reacted, her name calling and mocking gemmas overweight appearance and lion - head showed steph has zero class and is a love cheat too but gemma is as bad if not worse, she provoked a reaction and was as always ignorant, condescending, loud and fake

[rionablue]

Originally Posted by Tribal Spaceman

Who is Steph bullying exactly, herself?

Gemma has used Steph's questionable behaviour to make herself look good. Nothing more. Steph is woefully immature and has a foul mouth but most of the things she said about Gemma were bang on the money.

Totally agree

[tanussa]

gemma is her own worst enemy. its a slow process but she is upsetting everyone & exposing herself for the nasty piece of work that she is.

[hot2go]

Originally Posted by RodHull

It struck me as well the irony how Gemma banged on about how if John was Darrens mate he'd have made the point about him smoking in private quietly (A fair point) then apparently although she likes Steph (??) she felt it best to stand in the middle of the room and loudly proclaim how she believed what they were doing was wrong in a confrontational way.

I agree with Kazzane, this truth will be not get any responses because it's so real that there is no argument against it....what you describe is complete double standards on the part of Gemma.

[Northern Monkey]

Slag yes

Bully no